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The Most Common Questions on How to Have a Threesome

How do you ask your partner for a threesome?

Asking your partner for a threesome is a tricky question, which you should be careful with. If you do it casually, you may end up leaving the impression of weirdness or that you just want to be with another woman. But if you say that I think it would be hot to see you with another woman or trans woman, it would be a lot easier for her to accept it. But if your partner is very conservative and you really want to try a tinder for threesomes, even if you ask it nicely and obscure, she will not accept it and even will make her think you are weird. You can take it slow. Talk about threesome occasionally. Introduce it to her. Make her see the supreme feeling of threesome or bring her curiosity. One day, I believe she will bring it up to you firstly. But if threesome is really her taboo and if you care her very much, maybe you should just let it go.

How to have a threesome?

The preparing of a threesome is much more important than the process. First, make sure you and your partner both want it. You should be totally honest with each other. Set boundaries. What you want and what is forbidden. Make sure everyone is on the same page. Remember to let her choose the third party. This is very important if you don't want to wreck your relationship by showing affection to another woman. Make sure she is free from any infectious diseases. Safety comes first.

After did preparing, it goes to the real process. Just relax, you can always call it out when you are not feeling comfortable. There is no formula for threesome. Each case has its' differences. But generally speaking, it all starts with the couple and then invites the other girl or trans girl in the group. The most important thing is being generous. Always care for the other one while enjoy yourself. If there is one person not having fun, then the other won't neither.

How to get over jealousy in the process?

Jealousy is the most common thing during a threesome. The wife could be jealous of her husband for giving much intimacy with the third girl. The husband could be jealous of her wife and the third party when they make out. The third one could feel being left out by the couple. How to get over it? The answer is you must take your own initiative. You can solve this issue by yourself. Try to add yourself in while still care for the other. You can’t wait for them to come to you. Come by yourself. For couples, jealousy could damage a relationship. You both have to be 100 percent confident about yourself and about each other, or it won’t work in the right way. Always feel free to stop when you feel uncomfortable. If you are not doing it with your free will, the result will raise hidden danger and suspicion in your later life.

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